50 Unique Marriage Proposal Ideas [+ Printables] - Zola Expert Wedding Advice (2024)

Thinking of popping the question? Arrange the perfect proposal for your partner with these creative ideas. From romantic to adventurous, there's one for you!

While men were once the ones to propose in traditional settings, we surveyed 1200+ recently engaged couples and found that 85% of couples believe gender roles shouldn't limit who gets to propose. That’s why we’ve put together a list of 44 unique proposal ideas for all genders and types of couples. From romantic proposal ideas to trending, adventurous or imaginative ones, there’s plenty of inspiration to craft an experience that is sure to give the love of your life a proposal story they’ll never forget.

Let’s take a look at X of the best proposal ideas to help you create a special moment you’ll remember for the rest of your life:

Indoor Proposal Ideas

Does your partner prefer low-key quality time together? They’ll love these intimate proposal ideas:

1. Hire a Chef at Home

One of the most romantic ways to propose is over an amazing meal. But instead of dining out at a favorite restaurant, make your proposal more memorable with a date night dinner at your place—complete with a hired chef. Set the stage by sending your partner a photo of the menu before their arrival. Have the chef prepare all the favorite foods your partner loves—including appetizer, entrée, and dessert. After finishing your entrées, have the chef bring out the dessert: the engagement ring.

2. Create a Video

If you’re savvy with video editing, consider creating one. Compile different moments that you have spent together, such as snippets from your phone and social media. This can be random or a timeline from the time you both met to your most recent moments. Play it in your living room, followed by you proposing.

3. Candlelight Home Surprise

Create a pathway in your house using rose petals, candlelights,and romantic quotes. Once your partner enters, they will follow the dimly lit path of love quotes to the engagement ring—and you get to watch them light up more brightly than the candles!

4. Breakfast-in-Bed Proposal

Treat your partner to a delicious breakfast-in-bed. You can get creative by serving heart-shaped pancakes or strawberries as a symbol of your love. Bring in the dish on a meal tray with a love message hinting to your partner where you’ve placed the ring.

5. Photo Booth Proposal

Pull your partner into a photo booth for some impromptu couple’s photos. Then, when they least expect it, put out the ring. This surprise moment in the photos can become a cherished keepsake (talk about a perfect selfie!) and fun way to share the news.

Outdoor Proposal Ideas

If your partner prefers being out and about, they’ll love these creative outdoor proposal ideas.

6. Plan a Surprise Photoshoot

Suggest that you and your partner hire a professional photographer to take fancy couples’ photos of you two in a beautiful location, like on the beach or at your favorite local park. Inform the photographer in advance that you plan to propose during the shoot. At a moment when the photographer distracts your partner’s attention, pull out the ring. Once they turn back to you, the photographer will capture the moment.

7. Pop the Question on a Hike

Does your significant other love a good hike? Then this simple proposal idea is sure to be a great fit. Take them out on a hiking adventure in the mountains and propose to them with the beautiful backdrop of nature.

8. Propose on a Boat Ride

Do you live near the water? Enjoy a romantic boat ride for the day and propose while sailing.

9. Spontaneous Weekend Getaway

What better way to surprise your significant other than a spontaneous trip? Instruct your partner to pack their bags without revealing the destination. Slip the ring or a proposal note in their luggage for them to see once you all arrive and unpack.

10. Take a Guided Tour

Tour a luxurious or historical site that your partner would enjoy, such as a famous winery. When the moment feels right, propose!

Proposal Ideas for Favorite Hobby

Incorporating your proposal into your partner’s favorite pastime is a great way to catch them by surprise. Check out a few of our favorite hobby proposal ideas below.

11. Take a Couple’s Paint Class

Plan a fun couple’s paint class. You can check for art studios and restaurants that host paint nights for special occasions. During the session, paint your proposal question, making sure your canvas isn’t visible to your partner. Then, once the paint session ends, turn your canvas around to reveal your message.

12. Fishing Surprise

If you or your partner enjoy fishing, spend a romantic afternoon by the lake. When your partner isn’t looking, place the engagement ring on your fishing hook. Call your partner over and say you’ve caught something big. It’ll be the “perfect catch.”

13. Trip Down Memory Lane

Put together a collection of treasured memories that you both share in a box. This can include items such as you and your partner’s favorite games, songs, photos, books, and snacks. Hide the ring box beneath the other items for your partner to discover.

14. DIY Scrapbook

Recreate the above idea as a scrapbook! Put together a decorative book full of you and your partner’s favorite things using photos, images, stickers, and written messages. Dedicate each page to a particular hobby or activity, such as your favorite vacation trip or music. Reserve the last page for the written proposal or the engagement ring taped to the page.

15. Felt Letter Board Message

50 Unique Marriage Proposal Ideas [+ Printables] - Zola Expert Wedding Advice (1)Does your partner enjoy using felt letter boards? Rearrange the letters on it one day with a funny or romantic message hinting at your proposal.

16. Bookmark Proposal

Is your partner a bookworm? Sneak in this creative bookmark proposal in the book they’re currently reading. Your partner will never suspect it!

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Proposal Ideas with Pets

Pets are family, too! Try these cute proposal ideas that involve your furry friends.

17. “Marry Me?” Collar Sign

Hang an adorable proposal sign around your dog’s collar before your partner takes them out for a walk.

18. Paw-print Proposal Cards

Create a thoughtful card with a hand-written message of your proposal. You can decorate the card with your cat or dog’s paw prints. You can use water-based, non-toxic paint that is pet-friendly, as well as non-toxic ink pads.

19. “Fetch the Ring”

If your dog loves playing fetch, have him or her fetch the ring! Secure the ring onto an item that’s easy for the dog to bring, such as a frisbee or stuffed animal.

Playful Proposal Ideas

Share some laughs and great memories with these playful proposal ideas.

20. Bathroom Mirror Message

Use lipstick or a dry erase marker to write your proposal on the bathroom mirror. This will be one trip to the bathroom your partner won’t forget!

21. Ring-Pop Proposal

Does your partner have a sweet tooth? Pop the question using the tasty Ring-Pop candy. This could be a fun photo to share with your family and loved ones to announce the engagement.

22. Game Night Proposal

Insist that you and your partner host a game night with friends and family (who can also be in on the surprise). You can use a word game like Scrabble to spell out “will you marry me?” with the letters. For artsy games like Pictionary, you can draw a ring or a figure down on one knee.

23. Make a Playlist

Create a playlist of all the favorite songs you and your partner share. Towards the end of the list, add in some romantic songs about love and marriage, such as Marry You by Bruno Mars. Choose an evening where both of you can enjoy listening, like while cooking dinner. The end of the playlist can be the moment you pull out the ring.

24. Scavenger Hunt Surprise

If you’re looking for a fun way to get engaged, consider sending your partner on a treasure hunt! Leave notes of clues around the house for your partner to find. Each clue can lead to the next, and the final clue will reveal the hidden engagement ring.50 Unique Marriage Proposal Ideas [+ Printables] - Zola Expert Wedding Advice (4)

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Holiday Proposal Ideas

Holidays spent with loved ones are the perfect opportunity to pop the question. Here are a few creative holiday proposal ideas to try.

25. Jack-O'-Lantern Carved Proposal

Throw a Halloween party and initiate a jack-o'-lantern carving contest. Surprise your significant other with a carved out “marry me” message.

26. Proposal in Christmas Lights

Use lit Christmas trees or holiday lights as decoration around your proposal message—or assemble the lights as the message!

27. Easter Egg with the Ring Inside

Insist that adults join in on the Easter egg hunt game. This way, you can hide the ring in one of the eggs that your partner collects.

28. Fourth of July Fireworks

Set up a romantic evening to watch the fireworks on the Fourth of July. That way, you can propose beneath a beautifully lit sky of sparks and colored flames.

29. Thanksgiving Dinner Surprise

When your partner is distracted, sneak the ring box in front of them onto the dinner table. You can also write the proposal message on their napkin and pull out the ring once read.

Additional Fun Proposal Ideas

When it comes to expressing your love, the possibilities are endless. Here are several more fun and creative proposal ideas to try.

30. “The Big Question” Birthday Balloons

If it’s your partner’s birthday, slip a proposal note inside one of the birthday balloons. Have your partner pop the balloons to reveal their surprise proposal.

31. Propose at Disney World

This amusem*nt park is full of entertainment and attractions, such as a fireworks cruise and Disney characters, available to create the perfect moment.

32. Hire a Singer

Go out for a romantic dinner or stroll in the park. Then, have a serenader arrive at your location to perform a special song for you both. Finally, end the performance with the big moment.

33. Hot Air Balloon Proposal

Propose to your partner up in the air! Plan a hot air balloon ride together for a breathtaking view of the city when you propose.

34. Include the Kids

Include your child or children in the surprise! Consider planning a family outing, such as a secret beach proposal trip. While your partner is distracted, the kids can help set the scene, such as drawing “will you marry me?” in the sand.

35. Personalized Lantern Message

Simple yet thoughtful, order a personalized lantern with your marriage proposal carved inside. Once your partner lights the lantern, your message will display on the wall.

36. Fortune Cookie Surprise

Fortune cookies are hard once opened, but completely malleable when warmed. Quickly heat up a fortune cookie in the microwave and, once soft, gently open the sides to slip in your “fortune” proposal note. The cookie will cool and re-harden within minutes. Your partner won’t notice the difference!

37. Message in a Bottle

Write a love letter or poem with your proposal message on a sheet of paper and roll it up in a bottle. You can place the bottle somewhere fun and mysterious, like in the sand at the beach, where you both can walk past and “discover” it.

38. Pizza Box Proposal

Cheesy and adorable! Order delivery from your partner’s favorite pizza spot and ask the staff to write “will you marry me?” inside the box.

39. Re-create Your First Date

If your first date was a memorable moment, re-create it! Whether it's a café, restaurant, park, or otherwise, it'll be instantly romantic. Enjoy yourselves for a while, then steer the conversation towards your proposal. Pull out the engagement ring for a surprise that will feel like a fairytale!

40. Dance Proposal

Get dressed up and go out together for an evening of dancing. You can make a special request to the DJ to play your favorite love song. It will be the perfect moment to pop the question. Bonus points if you turn the dance party into a flash mob—and choreograph a dance just for the engagement!

41. Proposal Movie Trailer

If you have videography skills, create a faux movie trailer. This will require planning in advance, so give yourself ample time to put everything together. Once complete, host a ‘movie night’ with your partner where you will reveal the trailer.

42. Lip-Dub Proposal

For theatre lovers, a lip-dub proposal would make a wonderful performance. A video of this idea has ranked on YouTube as the best proposal ever for eight years straight!

43. Aquarium Proposal

Plan a nice afternoon trip to your local aquarium. You can ask the staff in advance if they can assist in the surprise. Once your partner is surrounded by exotic sea animals and tranquil blue scenery, you’ll have the perfect backdrop for your proposal!

44. Coffee Mug Surprise

Offer to prepare your morning coffees. Secretly write “will you marry me” inside the coffee cup before pouring in the batch. Once your partner begins to drink, the proposal message will gradually appear!

We hope this gives you plenty of ideas to choose from for your surprise proposal. Once engaged, Zola has everything you and your fiancé-to-be will need to plan your dream wedding. From vendors to invites, we’re your one-stop shop for all things wedding.

50 Unique Marriage Proposal Ideas [+ Printables] - Zola Expert Wedding Advice (2024)

FAQs

50 Unique Marriage Proposal Ideas [+ Printables] - Zola Expert Wedding Advice? ›

For those who would like to propose on a significant date, the most preferred choice was found to be on the couple's anniversary (34% of respondents). Interestingly, New Year's Day was found to be the least popular choice, only 2% of the population would like to get engaged on that date.

What is the most popular day for marriage proposals? ›

Top 10 Most Popular Days To Get Engaged
  1. Valentine's Day. When looking at the top 10 most popular days to get engaged, it should come as no surprise to see Valentine's Day top the list. ...
  2. Saturday before Christmas. ...
  3. Christmas Eve. ...
  4. Christmas day. ...
  5. Birthday. ...
  6. Anniversary of day you met. ...
  7. Other anniversaries. ...
  8. New Years Eve.

How to pull off the perfect proposal? ›

How to Pull Off the Best Surprise Proposals
  1. Be careful who you tell about your epic proposal. ...
  2. Ensure that your marriage proposal is well planned. ...
  3. Guard your devices before you pop the question. ...
  4. Distract them to throw them off the trail. ...
  5. Hide the engagement ring and anything that has to do with it. ...
  6. Stick to the routine.

How to do a lowkey proposal? ›

Read on for our top tips for creating a stress-free proposal that's as low-key as it is memorable.
  1. Make it a Gift. ...
  2. Local Love Story. ...
  3. Last Day of Vacation. ...
  4. At a Family Gathering. ...
  5. A Night at the Museum. ...
  6. The Peak of a Hike at Sunset. ...
  7. Photo Album Proposal. ...
  8. Get Your Pets Involved.
Jan 31, 2024

How to throw her off for a proposal? ›

4 Ways to Throw Off Your Girlfriend Before the Proposal
  1. Make “plans” for you or her and give her specific details about said plans. ...
  2. Go to the mall a day or two before, pass by a jeweler and suggest you look around so you can “get to know her taste.” ...
  3. Tell her you're waiting for another milestone before you get engaged.
Aug 24, 2017

What is the least popular day to propose? ›

For those who would like to propose on a significant date, the most preferred choice was found to be on the couple's anniversary (34% of respondents). Interestingly, New Year's Day was found to be the least popular choice, only 2% of the population would like to get engaged on that date.

What is the most romantic day to propose? ›

When asked what is the most romantic day to propose, a whopping 36% of respondents said Valentine's day - more than any other day of the year. However, this might be down to on-the-spot thinking, as only 8% of proposals actually occurred on Valentine's day - according to our respondents.

What not to do when proposing? ›

The 10 most common mistakes when proposing
  1. Choosing an ordinary day. ...
  2. Showing the ring to others before the engagement. ...
  3. Inform too many people. ...
  4. Playing hide-and-seek with the ring. ...
  5. Pranking her. ...
  6. Being inattentive. ...
  7. Behaving suspiciously. ...
  8. Forgetting what it really is about.

Which knee do you propose on? ›

Traditionally, you should kneel on the left knee – like a knight. Your right knee should remain up, and the ring box should be in your left hand, which you then open with your right hand.

What is the best time of day to propose? ›

Some may prefer a morning proposal, while others might find a sunset or evening setting to be more romantic. It is important to consider your partner's schedule, preferences, and any commitments the two of you may have on the day of the proposal.

How do you write a killer proposal? ›

No matter what type of sales proposal you're working on, you'll need to include:
  1. An executive summary of the entire proposal.
  2. Basic company information (and rep information if applicable)
  3. Contact information.
  4. Pricing breakdowns.
  5. Any terms and conditions relevant to the products or services.
Aug 16, 2023

What to wear when he proposes? ›

Wear solid colors – It is likely that you will want to be photographed during or just after the proposal. Here are some engagement photo ideas you can consider. Look for an outfit in a subtle print or solid color. Neutral colors, such as khaki, grey, black, and white are safe bets usually.

Who do you tell before you propose? ›

It's a safe bet to say parents, siblings, grandparents, or other close family members should be in-the-know before you pop the question. Sometimes, best friends can even be included. Doing so will not only show respect to the people who raised your wife-to-be, but it will also acknowledge their importance in your life.

How do you make a proposal stand out? ›

8 Ways to Make Your Business Proposal Stand Out
  1. Use Positive, Engaging Words. ...
  2. Keep It Short and Sweet. ...
  3. Know Your Audience's Problem. ...
  4. Shine the Light on Your Process. ...
  5. Be Realistic. ...
  6. Detail the Costs. ...
  7. Make the Proposal Visually Appealing. ...
  8. Have Three People Read the Proposal Before You Send it.

Which day is best for propose day? ›

Propose Day is annually celebrated on February 8. It is celebrated on the second day of Valentine's week. As the name suggests, on this day people confess their feelings to their love interest.

What is the most common day to get married? ›

The most popular day to get married is Saturday, luck or not. Rehearsals are typically on Friday evening, the ceremony sits in the middle of Saturday afternoon, and the reception is Saturday evening. Sometimes a brunch is held on Sunday morning to say goodbye to immediate family.

What day has the most engagements? ›

The number one spot for the most popular day to get engaged oscillates between Christmas Day and, you guessed it, Valentine's Day! Christmas day has always been in the top five for most popular engagement days, though Valentine's Day has historically taken the top spot more often.

What day are you supposed to propose on? ›

the best time to propose might be on a special occasion like a birthday or the anniversary of when you first started dating. Proposing on a special occasion enhances the element of surprise, since the bride-to-be won't think twice about secretive plans, giving the groom more leniency to coordinate a surprise proposal.

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